Me, Myself, and I

Recently one of my mentors said “I don’t do the things I do for the praise or the criticism, I do it because I love it.”
This was a light bulb moment for me.

For example:  I am aware that I post a lot on social media, and sometimes I feel like I have to check my intentions, to keep myself in check, I am also aware that I have done the work to be able to have this ability to introspect. I do what I do because I love to do it.

There have been times where I have been accused of only surrounding myself with people that agree with me, I realize this stems from societies religious roots. We are broken, we need accountability. But what people don’t realize, it that I have done the work to know that how I live is 100% right for me. I don’t need anyone to tell me that, let alone someone to NOT tell me that. Why would I have people in my life that don’t see I am capable of running it how I want? I don’t need your input, I have my own. I don’t need to seek answers outside of myself. I do not need answers, I am a sovereign, self propelled universe. I have people in my circle, of course, but the only person’s opinion that I need of myself is…myself. I am smart, I am intuitive and nobody knows what is best for me but me.

Once upon a time, I bought into the glorification of self loathing, the idea that if you took selfies and thought you were gorgeous you were vain and prideful. Even those “I ❤ me” shirts were just outrageous to my mom (and then of course to me too at the time) But let me tell you, NO. MORE. I will love myself enough for everyone. I will be vain and prideful and I will run my own life because THIS IS WHAT I DO AND I LOVE IT. I do not have to question. I do not have to check with anyone or have permission. I will do this authentically because this is who I am.

The things that I say, write, post are from my heart, it is my truth. If something I say doesn’t resonate with you, that is okay, maybe something else will. or not. I will continue to propel forward and speak my truth because it is my passion.  I don’t do it for the praise or the criticism.

May you find your power as I have found mine and may that look as unique as you are.



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